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In a novel as warm and embracing as a family kitchen, Barbara O’Neal explores the poignant, sometimes complex relationships between mothers and daughters—and the healing magic of homemade bread. Professional baker Ramona Gallagher is a master of an art that has sustained her through the most turbulent times, including a baby at fifteen and an endless family feud. But now In a novel as warm and embracing as a family kitchen, Barbara O’Neal explores the poignant, sometimes complex relationships between mothers and daughters—and the healing magic of homemade bread.   Professional baker Ramona Gallagher is a master of an art that has sustained her through the most turbulent times, including a baby at fifteen and an endless family feud. But now Ramona’s bakery threatens to crumble around her. Literally. She’s one water-heater disaster away from losing her grandmother’s rambling Victorian and everything she’s worked so hard to build. When Ramona’s soldier son-in-law is wounded in Afghanistan, her daughter, Sophia, races overseas to be at his side, leaving Ramona as the only suitable guardian for Sophia’s thirteen-year-old stepdaughter, Katie. Heartbroken, Katie feels that she’s being dumped again—this time on the doorstep of a woman out of practice with mothering. Ramona relies upon a special set of tools—patience, persistence, and the reliability of a good recipe—when rebellious Katie arrives. And as she relives her own history of difficult choices, Ramona shares her love of baking with the troubled girl. Slowly, Katie begins to find self-acceptance and a place to call home. And when a man from her past returns to offer a second chance at love, Ramona discovers that even the best recipe tastes better when you add time, care, and a few secret ingredients of your own.


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In a novel as warm and embracing as a family kitchen, Barbara O’Neal explores the poignant, sometimes complex relationships between mothers and daughters—and the healing magic of homemade bread. Professional baker Ramona Gallagher is a master of an art that has sustained her through the most turbulent times, including a baby at fifteen and an endless family feud. But now In a novel as warm and embracing as a family kitchen, Barbara O’Neal explores the poignant, sometimes complex relationships between mothers and daughters—and the healing magic of homemade bread.   Professional baker Ramona Gallagher is a master of an art that has sustained her through the most turbulent times, including a baby at fifteen and an endless family feud. But now Ramona’s bakery threatens to crumble around her. Literally. She’s one water-heater disaster away from losing her grandmother’s rambling Victorian and everything she’s worked so hard to build. When Ramona’s soldier son-in-law is wounded in Afghanistan, her daughter, Sophia, races overseas to be at his side, leaving Ramona as the only suitable guardian for Sophia’s thirteen-year-old stepdaughter, Katie. Heartbroken, Katie feels that she’s being dumped again—this time on the doorstep of a woman out of practice with mothering. Ramona relies upon a special set of tools—patience, persistence, and the reliability of a good recipe—when rebellious Katie arrives. And as she relives her own history of difficult choices, Ramona shares her love of baking with the troubled girl. Slowly, Katie begins to find self-acceptance and a place to call home. And when a man from her past returns to offer a second chance at love, Ramona discovers that even the best recipe tastes better when you add time, care, and a few secret ingredients of your own.

30 review for How to Bake a Perfect Life

  1. 5 out of 5

    Kimberly Kincaid

    I really, really enjoyed this! O'Neal's description is just stunning, and I felt like I knew every nook of her bakery/house (and loved it). The characters were lovely while still being flawed (even when they did ugly things-- which wasn't often, but this is life-- you knew they weren't ugly people. They were so real!). I loved how masterfully she wrote the layers of each character, and that everyone had a journey in the book. The book did "jump" from character to character (smoothly, in my I really, really enjoyed this! O'Neal's description is just stunning, and I felt like I knew every nook of her bakery/house (and loved it). The characters were lovely while still being flawed (even when they did ugly things-- which wasn't often, but this is life-- you knew they weren't ugly people. They were so real!). I loved how masterfully she wrote the layers of each character, and that everyone had a journey in the book. The book did "jump" from character to character (smoothly, in my opinion), and while it wasn't disarming for me, I could see how it might be for someone else because she writes Ramona's section in the first person, present tense (SO hard to do) and Katie's in the third person, past. Then there are Sofia's entries, which are all written in her journal. But I liked how it set each section apart. The love story was sweet and I really liked the book. I will definitely read anything else O'Neal writes. Worthwhile and poignant-- wonderful.

  2. 5 out of 5

    Margitte

    From the blurb: In a novel as warm and embracing as a family kitchen, Barbara O’Neal explores the poignant, sometimes complex relationships between mothers and daughters—and the healing magic of homemade bread. The title says it all. Add a little bit of Hallmark romance to it, and everything is said and done. There's romantic fluff, for sure. But surprisingly no martini and stiletto undertones, and that basically, makes this book a really good read. Okay, a good read if you believe in real people From the blurb: In a novel as warm and embracing as a family kitchen, Barbara O’Neal explores the poignant, sometimes complex relationships between mothers and daughters—and the healing magic of homemade bread. The title says it all. Add a little bit of Hallmark romance to it, and everything is said and done. There's romantic fluff, for sure. But surprisingly no martini and stiletto undertones, and that basically, makes this book a really good read. Okay, a good read if you believe in real people with real lives being challenged by modern issues, such as the Afghanistan war, drug abuse, parental neglect, financial challenges, and family feuds. And if you love baking bread, this is the book for you! In fact, it was the reason why I decided to just sidestep the sugary romantic talk in it and get some new inspiration from the baking side in it instead. Good decision. Old family homes and traditions, ordinary cars, and imperfect people trying to negotiate all the pitfalls coming their way. It's a wholesome story. You've figured that one out already. But it is realistic, and layered with family ties, compassion, trust and forgiveness. A palate cleanser after all the dark, somber reads. A feel-good experience. There is a lot of talented prose mixed into this dough. I really appreciated the experience. The company of this family it so special. What was really outstanding about this story was the depth of character of all the people involved. The integrity of the love baked into complex situations. It was not people seeking perfection in people. They looked far beyond that for the values that are so much more important. If it wasn't for the chick-lit romance, an unnecessary blandness, splashed like cold water over an otherwise amazing story, I would have gladly rated this book five stars. It was really that good. For romance readers it is a blast, though.

  3. 4 out of 5

    Deborah Blake

    I don't have the words to describe how much I loved this book. It is warm, funny, and entertaining while still being poignant and heart-breakingly real. It's like a mug of hot chocolate on a frosty cold day...with a shot of Bailey's in it. And as with all of O'Neal's books, the recipes are a great bonus. Ramona Gallagher is a professional baker who is one plumbing disaster away from losing everying, including her business and her grandmother's falling-apart Victorian. To complicate things, her I don't have the words to describe how much I loved this book. It is warm, funny, and entertaining while still being poignant and heart-breakingly real. It's like a mug of hot chocolate on a frosty cold day...with a shot of Bailey's in it. And as with all of O'Neal's books, the recipes are a great bonus. Ramona Gallagher is a professional baker who is one plumbing disaster away from losing everying, including her business and her grandmother's falling-apart Victorian. To complicate things, her very pregnant daughter Sophia is called away to deal with her husband's horrific injuries when he is hurt in action in Afghanistan--right when Sophia's 13 year old step-daughter is about to arrive. Can Ramona save her life's dream, a troubled teen, and mend both an old house and her family at the same time? And maybe even find love while she's at it? This book is about the love of family, and food, and about creating your own second chances. And the romance that shows up when you least expect it. You're going to want to make room for this one on your To Be Read Soon shelf, I promise you.

  4. 4 out of 5

    Linda

    "Bread I know. Bread I love." This statement described Ramona Gallagher's life. She ran her bakery out of a seen-for-better-days Victorian home once owned by her grandmother. Her daughter taking an unexpected trip to Germany, a broken water pipe, a soon-to-be visiting teenager and a dog needing rescue: these were just a few of the things that were affecting her day. The story was told by three generations of females: Ramona, her daughter, Sofia, and Sofia's stepdaughter, Katie. Normally I don't "Bread I know. Bread I love." This statement described Ramona Gallagher's life. She ran her bakery out of a seen-for-better-days Victorian home once owned by her grandmother. Her daughter taking an unexpected trip to Germany, a broken water pipe, a soon-to-be visiting teenager and a dog needing rescue: these were just a few of the things that were affecting her day. The story was told by three generations of females: Ramona, her daughter, Sofia, and Sofia's stepdaughter, Katie. Normally I don't care for chapters flipping back and forth between three different people but the author made it work. The characters were cracked and chipped; no one was perfect. Well, maybe Sofia, but she had the least amount of contact with the reader. Their story was bittersweet. Both a contemporary romance and women's fiction, it was loaded with family drama. Ramona came from a big family; most of them lived in the same town. Favoritism and rivalry lit sparks but the author fed you tidbits of poignant moments, too. There was some emotional turmoil and the way to look at things came from three sets of eyes: Ramona's, Sofia's and Katie's. The clincher that pulled everything together was the art of making bread. Here and there, tucked within the pages, are recipes but not ordinary receipts. Ramona shared some of her successes: her secrets. And why kneading, twisting and pulling at the dough relieved stress, helped with decision-making and gave her happiness. The act of making comfort food was her friend. On its own, the story might have been too anxious for some readers. (view spoiler)[There were a couple of squeamish moments but the author resolved them in due time. And, it was probably me, but I had three unresolved questions regarding Poppy, Lily and Cat. (hide spoiler)] There was a lot going on with plenty of angst and trust issues. But the preparation, 'watching' the bread rise and the 'smells' made you see and taste her world. For Ramona, bread was about nurturing, memories, healing, and pleasure: in one word, life. And, for a few precious moments, I felt I was along side of her in the kitchen.

  5. 4 out of 5

    Julia

    I liked this book very much. I liked the interaction between all of the characters and their individual story lines flowed together very well. This book also made me think about different parenting styles for different generations and how do we avoid the parenting mistakes our parents & grandparents made. There were a few loose ends that the author never tied up, but not enough to take away from my enjoyment of the book. Main Characters Ramona - the main character an early 40 year old baker, I liked this book very much. I liked the interaction between all of the characters and their individual story lines flowed together very well. This book also made me think about different parenting styles for different generations and how do we avoid the parenting mistakes our parents & grandparents made. There were a few loose ends that the author never tied up, but not enough to take away from my enjoyment of the book. Main Characters Ramona - the main character an early 40 year old baker, single mother, 1st person POV. Sofia - daughter of Ramona and married to a soldier wounded in Afghanistan, 1st person POV Katie - Sofia's 13 year old step daughter, 3rd person POV Bread baking is also a large part of this book as the main character Ramona is a baker (boulanger). I enjoyed the way the author incorporated several bread recipes into the book and how she explained the different stages of bread making. (This book has piqued my interest enough that I will be trying my hand at home made bread in the near future). Issues dealt with in this book are: family relationships (mostly mother/daughter), single parenthood, substance abuse, growing pains, and wounded military spouses.

  6. 5 out of 5

    Jeanne Adamek

    A wonderfully magical book written so clearly that I could feel, touch, taste, see and smell everything! I felt like a voyeur and enjoyed myself immensely. A definite "Feel Good" book with a happy end.

  7. 4 out of 5

    Ian

    Ramona finds herself well and truly thrown in the deep end when her daughter, Sophia, travels to Germany to be with her husband who suffered critical and life threatening injuries in the Iraq war. With Sophia in Germany, Ramona finds herself looking after her step-daughter Katie who has come from an impoverished and uncaring home. Over the months, Katie slowly starts to trust Ramona and feel a measure of stability. But every time she starts to feel like she belongs something happens which Ramona finds herself well and truly thrown in the deep end when her daughter, Sophia, travels to Germany to be with her husband who suffered critical and life threatening injuries in the Iraq war. With Sophia in Germany, Ramona finds herself looking after her step-daughter Katie who has come from an impoverished and uncaring home. Over the months, Katie slowly starts to trust Ramona and feel a measure of stability. But every time she starts to feel like she belongs something happens which reminds her she is an interloper. How to Bake a Perfect Life is the story of a group of women from four different generations. If I had to choose a word to describe the book, I'd say it's about 'resilience'. It's not always easy but it's ultimately positive and uplifting.

  8. 5 out of 5

    Candice

    Some books come into your life at just the right time. This one has been sitting on my shelf, but I'm going through some rough times now and wanted something that would be a comforting read. This was a perfect fit. It's not all sweetness and light. There are some very sad elements to the book - an Iraq war veteran who becomes a drug addict and damages the life of her child, an Afghan war soldier who is horrifically injured in the war. But at its heart this is a nurturing book about mothers and Some books come into your life at just the right time. This one has been sitting on my shelf, but I'm going through some rough times now and wanted something that would be a comforting read. This was a perfect fit. It's not all sweetness and light. There are some very sad elements to the book - an Iraq war veteran who becomes a drug addict and damages the life of her child, an Afghan war soldier who is horrifically injured in the war. But at its heart this is a nurturing book about mothers and daughters and the power of love. There's also a lot about baking bread, and some knock-your-socks-off recipes as well. No need to wait until you need a hug. This one can be enjoyed at any time. I'm glad it came to me when it did.

  9. 4 out of 5

    Holli

    I am just amazed at how this author writes! I've read one other book by her and I loved it also.... her character development starts right off the bat and by page 5 you are invested in everyone in her stories. The relationships between her characters, the settings, the recipes..... her phrases and word choices.... just AMAZING!!!! I highly recommend this book as well as The Lost Recipe of Happiness by her.

  10. 4 out of 5

    Angela Mcclanahan

    I love her books! This book follows a woman, who is a baker, through her life. I love how it is like I am watching a snapshot of this woman's life. I see the entire gambit of emotions from deep sorrow to true love and everything in between. The characters in the book go through everyday life and all the challenges and surprises that go with it. If you haven't read this author before then you are in for a treat. She always writes about some type of cook or baker and then includes recipes in the I love her books! This book follows a woman, who is a baker, through her life. I love how it is like I am watching a snapshot of this woman's life. I see the entire gambit of emotions from deep sorrow to true love and everything in between. The characters in the book go through everyday life and all the challenges and surprises that go with it. If you haven't read this author before then you are in for a treat. She always writes about some type of cook or baker and then includes recipes in the story. So you see the character make a bread and then at the end of the chapter is the recipe written by the character. I like to note in my reviews that there is sexual content in this book. Honestly I think there was a little too much and much more than in her previous books. It may have just been because I am a modest individual but I found the continual reoccurring sexual content a little distracting as if it was being forced into the book. Otherwise I totally loved this book and am excited to read more books by Barbara O'Neal. I have already recommended this book to a few of my friends.

  11. 4 out of 5

    VillaPark Public Library

    How to Bake a Perfect Life by Barbara O’Neal is the perfect recipe for an enjoyable read. Ramona Gallagher has weathered everything from becoming a single mother at age 15 to enduring an ongoing family feud that affects her current business situation. She operates a successful bread bakery in her inherited Colorado Springs Victorian home but the slow economy and a series of small mishaps threaten her business and home. Her daughter Sofia receives a call that her soldier husband has been badly How to Bake a Perfect Life by Barbara O’Neal is the perfect recipe for an enjoyable read. Ramona Gallagher has weathered everything from becoming a single mother at age 15 to enduring an ongoing family feud that affects her current business situation. She operates a successful bread bakery in her inherited Colorado Springs Victorian home but the slow economy and a series of small mishaps threaten her business and home. Her daughter Sofia receives a call that her soldier husband has been badly injured overseas and flies to Germany to be by his side, leaving Ramona to take care of her stepdaughter, Katie. The teenager has had a tough life with a meth addicted mother and a soldier father so she is wary of any new people in her life. Katie’s dog Merlin was rescued from the street and he plays a critical role in bringing Ramona & Katie together. Like yeasty bread, the story bubbles with love and drama and is best savored slowly.

  12. 4 out of 5

    Melodie

    The mother-daughter relationship is complex,unique,often dramatic.Ramona is an independent spirit, raising her daughter, building a business. The book gives voice to the family history that has landed Ramona where she finds herself and winds around to come full circle. I found this to be a deeply satisfying read. This family of strong women resonated with me. Each generation knows the basic recipe for mother love but each must tweak it to fit the their individual needs and situation. And each The mother-daughter relationship is complex,unique,often dramatic.Ramona is an independent spirit, raising her daughter, building a business. The book gives voice to the family history that has landed Ramona where she finds herself and winds around to come full circle. I found this to be a deeply satisfying read. This family of strong women resonated with me. Each generation knows the basic recipe for mother love but each must tweak it to fit the their individual needs and situation. And each generation tries to not repeat the perceived mistakes of their own mothers. The mistakes and missteps each made over the years brings them back to a place of understanding and a tolerance for that which they have trouble accepting or understanding. Bonus points for a four legged character named Merlin and all the recipes and bread baking tips. I intend on trying some of the recipes included in the book.

  13. 4 out of 5

    Chris Conley

    What an interwoven story with delightful characters.

  14. 4 out of 5

    Just - The romance reader

    The story had everything that a girl like me loves - baking, an awesome dog, a bakery, a bit of drama, some romance and a happy ending. Ramona is such a great character. She's so strong and compassionate, really, truly caring about those in her life. She has some struggles but no matter she's willing to sacrifice for her loved ones. And Katie, poor sweet Katie has seen way too much in her young life, but she's an old soul who has taken those bad experiences and struggles and turned them into The story had everything that a girl like me loves - baking, an awesome dog, a bakery, a bit of drama, some romance and a happy ending. Ramona is such a great character. She's so strong and compassionate, really, truly caring about those in her life. She has some struggles but no matter she's willing to sacrifice for her loved ones. And Katie, poor sweet Katie has seen way too much in her young life, but she's an old soul who has taken those bad experiences and struggles and turned them into life lessons that have put her on the path to being a truly amazing adult. An added bonus is that there are some of Ramona's bread recipes scattered throughout the book.

  15. 5 out of 5

    Audrey

    lovely and soulful. you will want to gather your mother and daughter and bake something. spend time doing things you love and eat good food and plant something. really enjoyed this one. my favorite part..."well, what if it isn't a big mistake? what if this is only something that happened, something that's different from the things most of your friends are doing but not bad. maybe it's extraordinary, to help you become an extraordinary person."

  16. 4 out of 5

    Sonja

    I wish it was possible to add stars for those particular books that blow over the top...because this is one of them. Wow. Captures the complicated relationships within families, and the fear, guilt, insecurity, and other swirling emotions of Katie are portrayed extremely well.

  17. 4 out of 5

    Catie

    *3.5 stars*

  18. 4 out of 5

    Elizabeth

    This is a fabulous book. The title and cover are not fitting in my opinion. They make it seem like a light read when it is anything but... so many things happening on these pages throughout the story, it was just so much more than I was expecting, in a good way...

  19. 5 out of 5

    Jess

    This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers. To view it, click here. Meh. This book is too long. That sums up the way I feel about it. It should have been about seventy-five pages shorter. It would have been better. O'Neal is a good story-teller. The characters she created in "How to Bake a Perfect Life" deserve to have their stories told. And she laid the groundwork for amazing connections and situations that would pull on your head, heart, and soul. But they didn't. They lacked a lot of proper development. I blame the set-up of the book in large part. If they Meh. This book is too long. That sums up the way I feel about it. It should have been about seventy-five pages shorter. It would have been better. O'Neal is a good story-teller. The characters she created in "How to Bake a Perfect Life" deserve to have their stories told. And she laid the groundwork for amazing connections and situations that would pull on your head, heart, and soul. But they didn't. They lacked a lot of proper development. I blame the set-up of the book in large part. If they had made a set of two book perhaps--this one only focusing on Ramona's two points of view. Another focusing on Katie alongside Sofia. Also because the book was so long--and the set-up so far-reaching, the descriptives were repetitive and the characters had similarities they shouldn't have. For example, every other page someone is resting their hand on their stomach. It is noted over and over. Everyone from Katie--who is thirteen, tiny, and as a teenager would not naturally rest her hand on her abdomen, to the pregnant women--the only ones that make sense, to the foreign, elder lover of the main character. Over and over. It's one of the many things you pick up on throughout the book that just rests in your mind. As does the fact that the main characters parents are names James and Lily. Which should be noticed by American authors who write books after the decade of the Potter generation.

  20. 4 out of 5

    Naomi

    Generally a cute story...sort of your typical chick-lit book. I bumped it up to 3 stars for the recipes alone..My gosh, the recipes look so fantastic. I am loving the fact that authors are starting to do recipes with their books..as someone who loves to cook, it is just something that makes them stand out and go POW! And let me add, I have gotten some pretty terrific recipes from these types of books and authors web sites.

  21. 5 out of 5

    Kathryn

    This book was such an enjoyable read and to get some delectable recipes for breads and muffins just added to my delight. My only true criticism was Ramona's relationship with her family and how she allowed them to treat her. I just felt she was strong enough to stand up for herself and not allow them to beat her up so badly. But that's what makes a good book, is the author's development of all the characters.

  22. 4 out of 5

    Melissa Storm

    I loved this book! Very deep characters and a compelling storyline, both past and present. Even though this book wasn't a romance, Ramona's and Jonah's love story is probably the most touching I've ever read--and that's saying something. Highly recommend for fans of both literary fiction and romance.

  23. 4 out of 5

    Michelegg

    This book was another amazing one from one of my favorite authors. Ramona was tough and stubborn but with such a love for her daughter and a desire to help struggling Sofia. The romance was perfectly yummy and so was the baking. I loved this book.

  24. 4 out of 5

    Cindy

    Really enjoyed this book and recommend it as a heart touching chic-lit read!!

  25. 5 out of 5

    Susan Andersen

    I laughed, I sighed, I cried my eyes out. Loved it!

  26. 5 out of 5

    Anne Pisacano

    Barbara O'Neal writes such full stories. Characters with full lives, as if they were real people. And, what I love is the depth of story, and the length! I can linger, and it’s not over before I’ve had a chance to immerse myself. The words and beautiful, and the description of food is amazing. This is the third novel of hers that I've read. A new favorite author for me!

  27. 4 out of 5

    Sandy H

    VAGUE SPOILER ALERT (although some of my points hint at story lines I don't think there are any direct spoilers. How to Bake a Perfect Life was an enjoyable read, although I liked some elements of the story line much more than others. I loved reading about the relationships between Ramona and Katie, Ramona and Sofia, and Sofia and Oscar. On the flip side, I found the parts about Ramona and Jonah pretty dull, frankly. Perhaps because it smacked a bit "typical romance novel" whereas the other VAGUE SPOILER ALERT (although some of my points hint at story lines I don't think there are any direct spoilers. How to Bake a Perfect Life was an enjoyable read, although I liked some elements of the story line much more than others. I loved reading about the relationships between Ramona and Katie, Ramona and Sofia, and Sofia and Oscar. On the flip side, I found the parts about Ramona and Jonah pretty dull, frankly. Perhaps because it smacked a bit "typical romance novel" whereas the other relationships and story lines were so much more real life, nitty-gritty, "bad stuff happens and we have to figure out how to deal with it." Those relationships all felt much more real and engaging--I wanted to see where each of them went. I found myself skimming the parts with Ramona and Jonah to get to the next scene with Katie in it. I liked that the question of what a perfect ending would be sort of shifted throughout the book until you realized "perfect" is no longer really a goal, but "livable" is. Made me think some about elements of my own life and where I'm at in some of those, "I'm in my mid-40s and where do I want to be next?" kinds of thoughts. I also have a niece married to a marine so issues of duty and injury have become part of our vocabulary--so I read those portions with a particular space in my heart for the characters. And, of course, it did make me want to bake some bread (which my Mom did). Or plant some flowers (which my Mom did but my grandma even more so). The common theme between bread and flowers is that of nurture and making things grow spoke to me--especially as I finished the book on the same weekend my baby girl graduated from high school. Yes, I still have a little role in helping her grow (as a loaf of bread or a flower--your pick), but really, her growth is now much more at the mercy of the elements around her and how she deals with them, and less what Mom may be able to. So the whole idea of how you nuture someone at different stages in their lives was really key to me--nuturing an adult daughter, nurturing a relationship with a sister and your mother when you're the adult, an adult daughter now nurturing her own baby, as well as taking on a nurturing role with her husband; and then there's Katie, who finally receives nuturing by any number of people--and how do those rolls compare with one another: Ramona, Lilly, Sofia, Adelaide. And, yes, even Merlin. There's also the relationship of the "eccentric" aunts to consider--who were brought together explicitly over the impending birth of a new little girl. I think that's part of my lack of interest in the Jonah storyline. The rest of the book was so female-centric; the males that periodically showed up were by and large bad guys, pretty useless, or self-serving. The women were all making their own ways, for good or ill. So Jonah didn't fit that mold--which made sense, he wasn't supposed to--but it just felt a bit interruptive every time he showed up on the scene. I don't have an issue with men myself--happen to be very happily married to a great one!--but this particular man just didn't seem to fit well in this particular story. He felt like a digression every time he showed up. No more dissing Jonah. I'm sure he's a perfectly nice guy. I really liked Ramona and Sofia and feel like I could sit down and have coffee with either or both of them tomorrow and have a great conversation. I'd love to know more about the history of Lilly and her mother. I'd love to know why Adelaide is still hanging around the garden. I'd love to know more about Ramona's issues with her sister. So while I was happy enough with the ending--it just barely missed (and to me, this was a good thing) being a too pat happy ending. There are still a few loose ends hanging around out there that you know will eventually still have to be addressed in the characters' lives. That's pretty much the way it is in real life, isn't it? I also liked the fact that Katie was more connected to flowers than bread and what that meant about relationships across generations, or what bread and baking symbolizes versus flowers and gardening. Some very interesting thematic discussions could be had there. Any book discussion groups want to take that one on? Another thematic question: why was Katie the only one talking to Adelaide? And why did Adelaide want flowers planted just so at the front of the house? And another thematic quiestion--or perhaps this is more a plot extension question: can we fill in the blanks about what might happen once Oscar's home? What kind of recovery needs will we have, and troubles given the mass of bodily infections babies are as a matter of course? And how will Katie fill out her relationship with her mother over the next years? And what will she have to work on in herself to be a strong sister to her little brother? OK, so that means it's a pretty good book--if you can finish it and still wonder what might happen to characters later, that means the characters have taken root, at some level, in your brain. So if anyone wants to start a book discussion on this one and convince me that Jonah wasn't a literary digression, I'd be happy to join! :-)

  28. 5 out of 5

    Leslie Clingan

    I selected this book to fit the bill for a reading challenge prompt "a book that is cozy". The word 'bake' in the title made me feel cozy, in addition to the image of the pup on the cover and the woman - our main character, Ramona - in an apron with a mixing spoon. Kitchens and baking and puppies are pretty cozy to my way of thinking. This is Ramona's story. A struggling mom, daughter, granddaughter and entrepreneur whose bakery is on the brink of insolvency. While life has never been easy for I selected this book to fit the bill for a reading challenge prompt "a book that is cozy". The word 'bake' in the title made me feel cozy, in addition to the image of the pup on the cover and the woman - our main character, Ramona - in an apron with a mixing spoon. Kitchens and baking and puppies are pretty cozy to my way of thinking. This is Ramona's story. A struggling mom, daughter, granddaughter and entrepreneur whose bakery is on the brink of insolvency. While life has never been easy for Ramona, bread baking has been one constant that has led her out of dark times in the past. With the possibility of losing her bake shop, every aspect of her life is on tilt. O'Neal's creates believable, relatable relationships among all of the female characters of this book and the struggles each has faced and is facing as the story unfolds. Tips for maintaining a sourdough bread starter and recipes for bread are interspersed throughout. Toward the end of reading How to Bake a Perfect Life, I baked one of my best loaves of bread using our family's 100 year old sourdough starter. Thank you, Barbara!

  29. 4 out of 5

    gille

    I loved How to Bake a Perfect Life. LOVED it. Read it in less than 2 days. Couldn't put it down, couldn't go to bed because I was so into it. I've read a lot of the other reviews that say it's typical chick-lit, but I don't know what kind of chick-lit those people are reading. This has some depth and deals with emotion and growth through generations of women. Sure it was predictable, but whatever. Do we read for surprises, or for the story, how it unfolds, how characters learn and grow? Do we I loved How to Bake a Perfect Life. LOVED it. Read it in less than 2 days. Couldn't put it down, couldn't go to bed because I was so into it. I've read a lot of the other reviews that say it's typical chick-lit, but I don't know what kind of chick-lit those people are reading. This has some depth and deals with emotion and growth through generations of women. Sure it was predictable, but whatever. Do we read for surprises, or for the story, how it unfolds, how characters learn and grow? Do we judge a book by the fact that it has a beginning and an end? So what if you can tell what's going to happen - this was not a mystery novel. There was no suspense. As with most of the books I end up loving, I'd put off reading this after other back covers were more appealing to me. I'm mad at myself for putting it off, though, as it turned out to be utterly fantastic. Here is a breakdown of the plot without any spoilers: Ramona is a 40-year-old small business owner. She owns a bakery, or rather a boulangerie, on the first floor of her old Victorian home in Colorado Springs. She is struggling to keep the business afloat when we meet her, as she had not expected the heavy costs associated with the upkeep of a very old home. Ramona got pregnant when she was 15, and has a 25-year-old daughter, Sofia. Sofia is married to a career soldier, deployed in Afghanistan. When we meet these women, they are in Ramona's kitchen when the phone rings. Of course it's the military, reporting that Sofia's husband, Oscar, has been badly wounded in an attack. 8-months pregnant, she rushes to Germany to be by his side, leaving Ramona to care for 13-year-old Katie, Oscars daughter from a previous marriage. Katie's mom is meth addict in rehab, and was due to arrive to live with Sofia for the foreseeable future. We learn about Ramona at 15, her summer with her aunt Poppy, and her life-changing friendship with a record store clerk named Jonah. Ramona's story is told in first person, Sofia's through journal entries, and Katie's in short third-person chapters. Mainly it is Ramona's story, but the other women have their own sides of what goes on. The women in the story have real feelings and deal with real problems. Don't get me wrong, if you look at my shelves I clearly have NO PROBLEM reading about women who have problems like whether they should purchase the new Prada bag or the new Tori Burch jeans - but those aren't real problems, are they? No, those are CHICK-LIT problems. Grappling with trust issues, learning to love, facing the unexpected - these are real life issues that I wouldn't dare call chick lit. Do not miss How to Bake a Perfect life! It is gripping and exceedingly well written. Just don't expect a suspense story out of women's fiction.

  30. 5 out of 5

    Megan

    Generally, I have a tendency to gag while reading a blurb that talks about ~exploring the bonds between mothers and daughters~, and one that additionally drops cliches like "offer a second chance at love." Barbara O'Neal, however, digs deep into characters and relationships, and she pulls out the poignant and the tough and the fragile. And she uses that stuff to tell her story, not the cliches or the stereotypes or the superficial obvious stuff. So while How to Bake a Perfect Life is a very, Generally, I have a tendency to gag while reading a blurb that talks about ~exploring the bonds between mothers and daughters~, and one that additionally drops cliches like "offer a second chance at love." Barbara O'Neal, however, digs deep into characters and relationships, and she pulls out the poignant and the tough and the fragile. And she uses that stuff to tell her story, not the cliches or the stereotypes or the superficial obvious stuff. So while How to Bake a Perfect Life is a very, very women's fiction-y type read (female family ties, pastries and bakeries, shopping trips and eloquently described dinners, and the matter of loving a complicated but steadfast man after falling for awful ones) with a small touch of magical realism (and it works for me, as said magic is neither heavy-handed nor twee nor deux ex machina), it's a bright shining star of the genre. It illuminates what I love in this genre. And it taught me about baking bread. So, score! This is an emotional, rather than an analytical, five-star justification. I can point out little flaws that'd cause me to mark down a book I liked less (too many little stories/characters that were either unnecessary or brought up but not used fully, problems that got resolved too nicely, multiple descriptions of patterns as "ethnic") but heart-wise? This book hit me in exactly the right place. The lives of the characters felt remarkably full and complex. Their lives, their houses, their stories felt lived in, extending beyond the pages and beyond the words. The relationships weren't simple or straight-forward, and the characters' feelings felt like real feelings, complex and deep.

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